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- Just met a girl (age 27) and
she's been with over 17 different guys. Should I be number 18?
- Lenny, Age 30 from Pennsylvania
Is she hot? (kidding) Look man, that's a personal decision. I'd
say it depends on what YOU want. Besides, if you didn't want to
know, you shouldn't have asked.
- The Man
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- My husband and I have been
married almost 8 years. We don't have sex anymore. As long as he
gets off, he's happy. He has no interest in pleasing me. I use a
vibrator most of the time and he's ok with that but even that's
getting old. What happened to great hot passionate sex? I have
tried the seduction thing, with candles and lingerie, but he
basically just wants a blow job and then he's on his merry way.
HELP ME!!!
- Cindy, Age 28 from Pennsylvania
Try getting him drunk. That method has worked for us guys for
ever and a day. It's no accident we turned buying women drinks
into a tradition.
- The Man
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- Why do all men want 2 women in
bed together?
- Jennifer, Age 21 from Maryland
2 is better then one. Simple math. I'd sleep with 50 girls if I
could. By the way, do you have 49 friends?
- The Man
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- I'm a virgin but seriously
thinking about sex with my boyfriend of 8 months. I was with him
a few days ago and things got pretty intense but I wasn't sure
if guys like it shaved or not. What is normal: shaved or not? I
just need this question answered cause otherwise I'll never be
able to go all the way.
- Roxanne, Age 20 from California
Shaved is mighty sexy. If he doesn't like it shaved, then smack
him upside the head. By the way, 'Ms. Itchy', as you'll soon be
known. Shaving comes with a price, so for the long term you
might opt for trimmed or tightly cropped. That leave totally
bald as a nice surprise for those special occasions.
- The Man
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- My best friend and two other
guys were at my house and my best friend was sitting in a chair
with one of them. They were flirting with each other and he was
unbuttoning her pants. After both of the guys left, my friend
said my house was "so fun" and we should do this
again. Am I being used by my best friend?
- Alison, Age 14
Sure, but that's okay. Everyone uses everyone else. Part of
being a friend is letting people use you a little. Think of it
as a form of giving. People use me all the time - for advice -
just like you're using me now.
- The Man
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- Here is my question: I am in a
relationship with a guy that I love very much and vice versa. We
don't go out much, the sex is more like "wham bam thank you
ma'am" rather than taking the time to fool around first,
plus the romance is kind of gone. How do I get this guy to be
more romantic in and out of bed without flat out telling him?
- Krys, Age 26 from Colorado
Flat out tell him. At the very least you'll get to the bottom of
things. Stop hinting around at what you want. You'll both
appreciate the sense of understanding you have after this
difficult conversation. He'll know what you want and you'll know
where he stands.
- The Man
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- My boyfriend is totally
emotionless during oral sex. He just sits there with a blank
look on his face. Could this be his normal response to pleasure
or is he just not enjoying my efforts?!?
- Tia, Age 18 from South Carolina
He's TOTALLY emotionless? You must suck in bed! (joke!!)
Actually it's not your fault. Lots of guys are like that. If you
don't like it, you can tell him to loosen up and try to teach
him to express himself better, or you can move on. It's up to
you. I suggest the frontal attack. Don't beat around the bush.
- The Man
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- I like this dude I work with.
He's 19, I'm 17. It seems like he flirts with me. I know guys
don't like to be pursued too much, so how do I get him to want
me bad without pushing it? Can I ask him to hang out or is that
too pushy? Please give me a serious answer. Thanks! I love You!
- Erika, Age 17
Sometimes it helps to be 'around' the same places he goes. Girls
have tried that with me and it usually works. I don't feel
pursued that way. They find out where I'm going to be and then
they 'just happen to be there'. It's a clear signal without
sending a clear signal. Why not give that a try?
- The Man
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- I have been reading the posts
in the member ask members section on your site and noticed a LOT
of anti abortion letters. I myself am pro-choice for others and
feel no one but the woman as the right to make that decision. I
am curious as to YOUR view on abortion. What do you think of it?
- SC, Age 20 from New York
This web site is cool because it provides an opportunity for
everyone to express their opinion freely. Lately tempers have
flared on Channel 3 discussion groups regarding this and other
issues, which is cool, but not really productive. I wish people
weren't so violently passionate about their views. It would be a
much more peaceful world if people didn't want to kill me, for
instance, simply because I was born Jewish - know what I mean?
Anyway, regarding your question, I'm in favor of the ability to
have abortions. I think it's a viable method of birth control
that should be available to prevent unwanted children.
- The Man
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- Why do men always insist on
being in control of the relationship?
- Julie, Age 19 from Arkansas
Because we know you wouldn't respect us if we let you control
it.
- The Man
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- I work at a restaurant and I
have been seeing my boss for about six months and he's married
but only because he is from another country and he has to be
married to someone from his country. I know I am doing something
very awful and what goes around comes around but I am in love
with him and yes we're sleeping together. Also, his wife comes
up there sometimes and talks to me. Well now I have moved about
4hrs. away from him but still talk to him everyday and think
about him all the time.... he is also about 20yrs. older than
me........I am in love with him though, what do I do?????
- Anonymous
You made a mistake. Go bark up another tree. Men come and go, so
does love. Also, self control is part of life. Chalk this up to
a learning experience and be happy she didn't find out and do
something violent. I don't know where she's from, but I do know
that if he's married to her because of the custom's of their
country, there's a relatively good chance that she's going to
feel justified in hurting you if she ever finds out. Besides,
imagine if some woman was banging your dad and your mom found
out. You're being selfish and he's being a prick. Time to move
on.
- The Man
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- How can I get my wife to
perform oral sex on me? She tells me she does not like to
do it but I will perform oral sex on her till she orgasms?
- Stephen, Age 34 from Massachusetts
Try getting her a BMW. That seems to work for a lot of guys. If
that doesn't work, cover yourself in chocolate syrup, whip cream
or honey. If THAT doesn't work, try hypnosis. Make her think
it's a Popsicle.
- The Man
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- I don't know if this is going
to sound weird, but can people pee during sex? A couple of
nights ago me and my man were doing the deed, when all of a
sudden things got very, very wet, I mean dripping down legs, and
soaking the sheets, and I know that it wasn't from me. Also, it
really started to smell like urine! Is this possible?
- Baby, Age 18 from Nebraska
If it walks like duck and it quacks like a duck then it must be
a duck. Your man peed on you. Yuck! Remind me not to sit on the
couches at your house.
- The Man
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- My soon to be husband and I
have had a few threesomes, however lately they have stopped. How
do I tell him I want us to get it on was this women we know? I
even imagine the two of them fucking while I watch!!
- Kandy, Age 22 from Alabama
And here I was thinking all the good women were taken! Kandy,
let me know if things don't work out!!
- The Man
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- I need some advice. My husband
seems less interested in sex. We had a baby 3 months ago and yes
I lost all the weight that I gained(28lbs). He is 25 and I'm
30-we have been together for 4 years and married for 2. I just
have this gut feeling that he is getting it somewhere else. Any
advice?
- Nancy, Age 30 from North Dakota
Babies are an excellent way to kill a sex drive. On the other
hand, if you think he's cheating, then there isn't much you can
do except to confront him with it. You either trust him or you
don't.
- The Man
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- I've always been noticed for
the size of my breast. It's kind of a mixed blessing, I love my
breast and sometimes the attention is fun, but then other
times... ya know. Does the size really matter?
- Lee, Age 16 from South Carolina
Lee, Tiger Woods was born with a physical quality that makes him
a great golfer. Other people are born with great looks. In your
case, you were born with hooters. No matter what you're born
with, you get to use your physical attributes to your own
advantage. Tiger Woods does it, Cindy Crawford does it. Arnold
Schwarzenegger does it and so can you. Learn to use your natural
attributes in a good or benevolent way, but also in a way that
helps you personally succeed in life. There's nothing wrong with
it. Also keep in mind that aspect of life has good and bad
sides, including having big ta tas. That's just part of life.
- The Man
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